God is in Control, Why do I Force Things?

-I don't understand how and that is why I think sometimes I feel like I have to force things, or I fear, but I can always look back and see clearly what He did, how He did it, and often why.  He really does work all out for good, and according to His purposes.  He teaches me time and again that I just need to focus on obeying Him and He will work it all out as He sees fit.  Thank you Lord!